I had the opportunity to go to Women's Conference at BYU in Provo this past week. A couple of friends from the ward and I threw the trip together last minute and had a wonderful and crazy 2 whirlwind days. Because Drostan doesn't have much time off after the accident, I took my 3 younger kids with me and they got to play at Nana and Papa's house in So. Jordan while I attended the conference. All 6 of us also stayed at my parents house since all of the hotels and dorms were booked. They were amazing and hospitable and couldn't have made us feel more welcomed and comfortable. I dream of someday being half the woman my mother is. She is truly the most selfless, giving person I know.
So we left Wed. afternoon and drove the 6 hours it takes to get there. The kids did wonderfully. Thursday morning, we made our way down to Provo amidst the throngs of other women and finally found parking and a seat in the Marriott center. They began each day with everyone together (I'm guessing around 15,000) and then broke off for smaller lectures around the campus. We would meet up for a closing speaker in the evening and then we were dismissed to either service activities and a concert or what we decided to do... dinner, shopping, and a late night gab session. The next day was the same but we were so blessed to have the final speaker of the day be our dear prophet,
Pres. Thomas S. Monson. What an amazing spirit we felt as he walked into the Marriott Center with his dear wife Francis. It was a beautiful ending to an inspiring couple of days.
I took a bunch of notes but here are some of the highlight quotes and ideas I took away from the conference:
~ It is not for you to be led by the women of the world, but to lead them. - Sheri Dew
~ Coming unto Christ means walking away from the world. - Sheri Dew
~ When you are folding a mountain of laundry, every time you pick up an article of clothing, think of a memory or a fun way the child to whom the clothes belongs to touches your life.
~ Use 10 minutes between meal time and dessert to do family scripture reading.
~ When you are reading the scriptures, stop in the middle of a verse and give a treat to the first child who can say the next word. (see who is following along)
~ Don't underestimate the good you are doing when you are doing your best.
~ This is what we signed up for before coming to Earth. If all of the stressors were taken away, we wouldn't have a purpose to be here and learn.
~ Our ancestors did not come across the plains and sacrifice so much just so I could be more comfortable or complacent or have more "stuff".
~ Instead of doing
for the children, do
with the children.
~ A lazy mom is one who does everything herself.
~ Buy a "prayer alarm clock". Set it for a time, morning and night and when it goes off, the whole family stops whatever they are doing and gathers for prayer.
~To Be Happy: Don't do whatever you like; like whatever you do!
~ Assign teenagers a night to cook. Mom's are there to help but they make the menu and then write it down on a recipe card. The cards are then saved and the child has a great resource to take with them on their mission or to college of things they themselves have made.
~ No great cause ever succeeded without great effort.
~ When you teach a boy, you teach an individual. When you teach a girl, you teach a generation.
~ It doesn't matter who we aren't when we know who we are.
~ If we are not involved wih and take an interest in our children, someone else will.
~ Praise the positive and minimize the negative.
~ There is no tomorrow to remember if we don't do something today. - Pres. Monson
There was so much more but those are some of the highlights. Thank you for letting me share them with you.